Matthew 10.24-39 (NRSV)
24 ‘A disciple is not above the teacher, nor
a slave above the master; 25it is enough for the disciple to be like
the teacher, and the slave like the master. If they have called the master of
the house Beelzebul, how much more will they malign those of his household!
Whom to Fear
26 ‘So have no fear of them; for nothing is
covered up that will not be uncovered, and nothing secret that will not become
known. 27What I say to you in the dark, tell in the light; and what
you hear whispered, proclaim from the housetops. 28Do not fear those
who kill the body but cannot kill the soul; rather fear him who can destroy
both soul and body in hell. 29Are not two sparrows sold for a penny?
Yet not one of them will fall to the ground unperceived by your Father. 30And
even the hairs of your head are all counted. 31So do not be afraid;
you are of more value than many sparrows.
32 ‘Everyone therefore who acknowledges me
before others, I also will acknowledge before my Father in heaven; 33but
whoever denies me before others, I also will deny before my Father in heaven.
Not Peace, but a Sword
34 ‘Do not think
that I have come to bring peace to the earth; I have not come to bring peace,
but a sword.
35 For I have come to set a man against his father,
and a daughter against her mother,
and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;
36 and one’s foes will be members of one’s own household.
37Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; 38and whoever does not take up the cross and follow me is not worthy of me. 39Those who find their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it.
35 For I have come to set a man against his father,
and a daughter against her mother,
and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;
36 and one’s foes will be members of one’s own household.
37Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; 38and whoever does not take up the cross and follow me is not worthy of me. 39Those who find their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it.
My text is Matthew 10.39:
39 ‘Those who find
their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find
it.’
Jesus tells his disciples that they cannot expect to be
treated in any way better than him. If people showed no respect for Jesus, they
will not show respect to his disciples. Jesus refers to Beelzebul, which in
Aramiac means Lord of the house. We
as Christians belong to the house of Jesus, and so those giving their
allegiance to others are going to have little time for them. But we are not to
be afraid, because the truth will prevail. Jesus had explained the truth to the
disciples, but the world was not yet ready to receive it. But the time would
come when our Lord’s suffering, death and victory over sin, death and evil
would be proclaimed from the rooftops for all to hear. The sad truth is that
this proclamation often lead to the martyrdom of those who proclaimed it. But
even this should not concern us, because Jesus explained that people can only
harm – even kill – the body; who we really are is present within our souls,
where true life happens. Who and what we are is not contained in our bodies,
the God life, the true life, the real life, the life in all its fullness – what
God offers to all and what we have accepted as Christians - is a gift from God
alone. But if the life of a sparrow matters to God, how much more do we matter.
God’s knowledge of us, even our physical bodies, is intimate
and detailed – even the hairs on our heads are numbered by him. But why ought
we to ‘fear’ God. Here we see our Lord once more using hyperbole to get his
point across. Death comes when we deny
our Lord by betraying ‘… the love which he has manifested to us …’ When we live
in a way that fails to imitate our Lord, this is when we perish, this is when
our lives are compromised and some even die. People in this state can be in
perfect physical health, but have died inside!
This is the truth that we need to declare from the rooftops;
that there is life, real life, life in all its fullness, and it is a free gift,
offered by Jesus to all who would receive it. Once more Jesus goes into
hyperbole, stressing the need to proclaim this message, loud and clear, so that
people might know what it is to live, and not merely exist.
Our world is full of people who merely exist. They have
everything that money can buy and then some, but they still have nothing. We
need to be eager to pass the message on. Love, is at the heart of what it means
to be fully human, for it is the nature of God himself, as John explains in his
first epistle.
What then is it that we must proclaim?
We are to announce salvation to all people, for ‘… such a
pardon is only truly received if we are eager to pass it on …’
In Romans
10.14-15 Paul writes: “But how are they to call on one in whom they
have not believed? And how are they to believe in one of whom they have never
heard? And how are they to hear without someone to proclaim him? And how are
they to proclaim him unless they are sent? As it is written, ‘How beautiful are
the feet of those who bring good news!’”
We bring the good news that real life is possible, full life
is possible, but it is not what people think it is; it comes when people live
for others and not only themselves. Fulfilment follows selflessness.
And what it our motivation: In 2 Corinthians 5.14-15 Paul explains: “For the love of
Christ urges us on, because we are convinced that one has died for all;
therefore all have died. And he died for all, so that those who live might live
no longer for themselves, but for him who died and was raised for them.” Unless
our motivation is love, then we are doing everything for the wrong reason; for
God is love and he calls us to follow the ways of Christ which are the ways of
love.
From verse 34, Jesus returns to his earlier theme … the
struggles his disciples will need to face up to. These even happen within one’s
families. Verse 34 is shocking in its hyperbole and paradox. These seem strange
words to come from the person who exalted peace in the Beatitudes in the Sermon
on the Mount. De Dietrich explains: ‘… to announce the peace of God is to
denounce all false ideas of peace, which are only frightful caricatures of it
…’ Verses 34-37 have been sadly abused at times and have been invoked to
justify some dreadful behaviour – but only if they are embraced in their
literal expression. The division comes when the disciple of Jesus follows his
ways of selfless love and their family oppose it. This could be seen in South
Africa where children opposed Apartheid and were opposed by their parents;
where parents opposed the money grabbing dishonesty of a child who was using
unjust business practices or when a daughter-in-law supported her husband in doing
what is was right and his parents objected. Our love and obedience to the
message of Jesus must be prominent. And this can imply the cross of forgiveness
and self-sacrifice in the midst of hatred, dishonesty and injustice. Real peace
comes when people follow the example of our Lord and live for others, even
those who might harm us.
Sadly, we today live in a world where real peace is not the
experience of many. Today’s ‘peace’ is a mask, a cover up, disguising falsehood
– and so there is no peace. This is what Jeremiah spoke of … ‘they have treated
the wound of my people carelessly, saying, ‘Peace, peace’, when there is
no peace. (Jeremiah 6.14)
Jesus came to disturb all false ideas, to tear to pieces
with the sword – his words – all the false masks that people use to pretend and
not be themselves as the author to the Letter to the Hebrews explains: Hebrews 4.12-13:
Indeed, the word of God is living
and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing until it divides soul
from spirit, joints from marrow; it is able to judge the thoughts and
intentions of the heart. And before him no creature is hidden, but all are naked
and laid bare to the eyes of the one to whom we must render an account.
There might come a time when the call will come and we will
need to leave all to follow Jesus. It could even mean a Cross. This is not a
symbol of death, it is the mark of humiliation – the condition of a slave. It
is in this that a disciple is not above his master. But we are seldom asked to
go this far. The question is would we be prepared to, if the call came?
Again, this passage reminds us of the folly of literalism.
We know that throughout the ages, the New Testament and the Christian leaders
throughout history have warned about taking things literally that are meant to
explain and reveal a deeper truth, for this is to limit the real depth of gift
we are being offered. What we are called to is the willingness for extreme
self-sacrifice, for this is the way to the only true life. When we are willing
to give up everything, then we find the real meaning of life. This is summed up in the prayer of Ignatius
Loyola:
Lord Jesus, teach me to be generous,
teach me to serve you as you deserve,
to give and not to count the
cost,
to fight and not heed the
wounds,
to toil and not to seek for
rest,
to labour and not to seek
reward,
except that of knowing that I do your will.
Christians are those who live selfless lives. In reality the
Christian parent lives for their children and their children for their parents.
It is selfishness that is the cause of division within families and when the
Christian calls for selflessness, conflict arises.
Jesus said: 39 ’Those who find their life will
lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it.’ This verse is
pivotal; it occurs in six different forms. Here the word translated as ‘life’,
is the same as can be translated as ‘soul’. As Argyle explains: ‘Both meanings
are included here. By gaining his (physical) life, a person will lose his real
self; by losing his (physical) life, a person will gain their real self.’
We look after our bodies as best we can, but never at the
expense of the soul. As Bonhoeffer explains, Jesus was the example of true
love, divine love, the expression of the nature of God himself he was – ‘a man
for others …’ and we are called to be the same. As Jesus put it:
39’Those who find
their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find
it.’